Ultimate 'Stop Fighting' Toolkit
Ultimate
'Stop Fighting' Toolkit
Successfully overcome conflicts as they arise.
Communicate constructively while creating a deeper emotional and sexual connection with your partner.
Sign up today to get instant access to all resources valued at $788 for an absolute steal at $197!
I've Been In The Same Position As
You...
In my previous relationships, it always felt like my partner and I was not on the same page, we felt very disconnected. I searched desperately for resources I could use to create and maintain a healthy and happy gay relationship. Navigating through any relationship is hard, being in a gay relationship is harder.
It eventually got better in time as I found support from a community of other gay guys who knew how relationships work, I found folks I could relate to. That’s why in 2007, my husband and I created a supportive institute for gay men to create awesome relationships. It's called the Gay Couples Institute and is now the only relationship Institute in the world to publish outcome data on its success rate.
If the COVID pandemic taught us anything, it's that life is precious.
Your life and your relationships are what you make of them.
But if your relationship is...
• Taking on a toxic tone
when you try to have
open and honest conversations...
• Struggle to get through
life's ups and downs in
a way that brings you
closer...
• Lacking empathy when
being vulnerable,
discussing hang-ups,
or planning a future...
• Just not feeling on
the same page anymore...
This 'Toolkit' contains the
BEST conflict-resolution
skills that our Institute
has to offer our regular
clients, at an enormous
cost-savings.
Whether you watch on
your own or with a
partner, you can have a
productive conversation
about your challenges
moments after watching
the lessons.
But if your relationship is...
• Taking on a toxic tone
when you try to have
open and honest conversations...
• Struggle to get through
life's ups and downs in
a way that brings you
closer...
• Lacking empathy when
being vulnerable,
discussing hang-ups,
or planning a future...
• Just not feeling on
the same page anymore...
This 'Toolkit' contains the
BEST conflict-resolution
skills that our Institute
has to offer our regular
clients, at an enormous
cost-savings.
Whether you watch on
your own or with a
partner, you can have a
productive conversation
about your challenges
moments after watching
the lessons.
Four thousand couples later, we created the
Gay Relationship Revolution method
in order to provide a clear path for our clients to succeed.
Here's How It Looks...
But right in the middle of the chart, you'll notice "Conflict with Others - Use Differences To Grow Closer"
You have probably noticed that some conflicts are useful, and actually help you feel closer to a partner.
In 2007 we started asking, "How do we replicate THOSE kinds of conflicts?"
Here's How...
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LESSON 1: Conflict Foundations -
Listening, And Getting Yourself Heard
We show you a very specific format for speaking and listening with a partner (waaay beyond just using 'I statements'...)
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LESSON 1: Conflict Foundations -
Listening, And Getting Yourself Heard
We show you a very specific format for speaking and listening with a partner (waaay beyond just using 'I statements'...)
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LESSON 2: Getting Needs Met By Turning Toward Bids For
Attention
The process by which you get your needs met rests upon activity nurturing your bidding system with your partner.
This lesson provides nice overview of how to become better aware of how you, and your partner, ask for needs... and, guess what?
There's are an app for that.
These exercises immediately turns on the feeling you had when you first start dating.
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LESSON 2: Getting Needs Met By Turning Toward Bids For
Attention
The process by which you get your needs met rests upon activity nurturing your bidding system with your partner.
This lesson provides nice overview of how to become better aware of how you, and your partner, ask for needs... and, guess what?
There's are an app for that.
These exercises immediately turns on the feeling you had when you first start dating.
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LESSON 3: Becoming a Conflict Pro
Supported by our own published research since 2007, there are four communication strategies that predict whether a conflict will immediately become unproductive.
They are criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling.
In this lesson we show you what they look like, and then demonstrate the antidotes using our own (real) experiences.
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LESSON 3: Becoming a Conflict Pro
Supported by our own published research since 2007, there are four communication strategies that predict whether a conflict will immediately become unproductive.
They are criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling.
In this lesson we show you what they look like, and then demonstrate the antidotes using our own (real) experiences.
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LESSON 4: Learning From Prior Negative Incidents
Miscommunication is the norm in relationship
Couples who last long term are good at learning from prior missed bid for attention, and negative encounters, so that the situation isn't repeated in that way again.
In this lesson we show very powerful, and advance exercise for processing the past.
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LESSON 4: Learning From Prior Negative Incidents
Miscommunication is the norm in relationship
Couples who last long term are good at learning from prior missed bid for attention, and negative encounters, so that the situation isn't repeated in that way again.
In this lesson we show very powerful, and advance exercise for processing the past.
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LESSON 5: How to Compromise Like the Pros
Everyone says that the key to a relationship is compromise!
THEY'RE WRONG, because compromise is inherently lose-lose (not win-win).
Both sides have to give up something in order for compromise to be successful, and this isn't often possible in an intimate relationship.
Here we show you why this is, and how to go about it when the timing is right.
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LESSON 5: How to Compromise Like the Pros
Everyone says that the key to a relationship is compromise!
THEY'RE WRONG, because compromise is inherently lose-lose (not win-win).
Both sides have to give up something in order for compromise to be successful, and this isn't often possible in an intimate relationship.
Here we show you why this is, and how to go about it when the timing is right.
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LESSON 6: Work Through Your Value System Without Getting Flooded
When things get too over whelming, and your body goes into fight-or-fight mode, there's nothing either of you can say to pop your brain into competing for sense of security.
In this lesson we show you how to move your body out of that unproductive space.
Yep! there's an app for that, too!
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LESSON 6: Work Through Your Value System Without Getting Flooded
When things get too over whelming, and your body goes into fight-or-fight mode, there's nothing either of you can say to pop your brain into competing for sense of security.
In this lesson we show you how to move your body out of that unproductive space.
Yep! there's an app for that, too!
Here's What We Suggest...
1. Scroll down and take advantage of the Toolkit while it is still available at this price.
Inflation has caused us to adjust our pricing, but we're trying to make it available at the lowest cost possible TODAY
2. Your purchase includes a 14-day refund policy.
If it's not a fit for any reason, just shoot over a one-line email and we'll refund your investment.
We want you to be happy and successful after working with us.
3. Want additional support?
Email us at admin@gaycouplesinstitute.org, and we'll give you access to our consultation calendar.
If you decide to work with us on an ongoing basis we'll apply your Toolkit investment (and you'll still keep it forever).
Here's What We Suggest...
1. Scroll down and take advantage of the Toolkit while it is still available at this price.
Inflation has caused us to adjust our pricing, but we're trying to make it available at the lowest cost possible TODAY
2. Your purchase includes a 14-day refund policy.
If it's not a fit for any reason, just shoot over a one-line email and we'll refund your investment.
We want you to be happy and successful after working with us.
3. Want additional support?
Email us at admin@gaycouplesinstitute.org, and we'll give you access to our consultation calendar.
If you decide to work with us on an ongoing basis we'll apply your Toolkit investment (and you'll still keep it forever).
Here’s How to Get Access
Many people spend years in turmoil caused by poor relationships or being unhappily single.
The costs of divorce seem to rise year by year, in some countries reaching over $30,000 on average.
We're made it possible for all LGBT individuals to get access to the knowledge in this toolkit for he FRACTION of that price
TOTAL VALUE: $788
JUST $197
Here’s How to Get Access
Many people spend years in turmoil caused by poor relationships or being unhappily single.
The costs of divorce seem to rise year by year, in some countries reaching over $30,000 on average.
We're made it possible for all LGBT individuals to get access to the knowledge in this toolkit for he FRACTION of that price
TOTAL VALUE: $788
JUST $197
Bonus material
INCLUDED TODAY
only...
Want a workbook to use in printable (or electronic) format to use this material on the go?
80-page workbook "5-Secrets to a Great Gay Relationship" showing the fundamental and required steps necessary to start a relationship on the right footing.
Normally $29
TODAY FREE!
Bonus material
INCLUDED TODAY
only...
Want a workbook to use in printable (or electronic) format to use this material on the go?
80-page workbook "5-Secrets to a Great Gay Relationship" showing the fundamental and required steps necessary to start a relationship on the right footing.
Normally $29
TODAY FREE!
Here's What Our Clients Have To Say...
If you feel like the course is not a good fit for you or is not what you were expecting, write to us and we’ll process a refund.
We’re that confident you’ll find this toolkit to be everything that was promised and more!
Frequently Asked Questions...
1. How does this work?
Just go through the lessons and start using with your partner.
2. Do I need to do this WITH my partner?
What if they don't want to do it? The best thing about this toolkit is that you can learn these skills ON YOUR OWN. We wanted to empower everyone who wanted couples counseling or deeper help, but experienced resistance at home. This is perfect for you.
3. Can I do this with my partner?
The videos/lessons show us (Sam & Alapaki, the founders of the Gay Couples Institute) demonstrating the skills on our own real experiences. This provides the best template that you can learn to replicate on your own.
4. Can we get more help?
Sure. Email us at admin@gaycouplesinstitute.org for a link to our application and consultation calendar. If you move forward with us we'll credit your investment in the Toolkit. We take good care of our best clients (you), and try to make as much of our Institute available as possible.
5. What is the cost?
Well, Let's be honest. Divorce cost $30,000. The ending of the relationships impact one's ability to work and connect to others as the breakup happens. The toolkit allows you to sample some of the best conflict materials at a **fraction** of the financial cost of these other outcome. Scroll down and take a look at what we have made a available today.
6. What if I'm not sure?
No problem. Try it out, and if it's not a good fit send over a one-line email asking for a refund. We want you to be happy with your investment.
Frequently Asked Questions...
1. How does this work?
Just go through the lessons and start
using with your partner.
2. Do I need to do this WITH
my partner?
What if they don't want to do it? The
best thing about this toolkit is that
you can learn these skills ON YOUR
OWN. We wanted to empower everyone
who wanted couples counseling or deeper
help, but experienced resistance at home.
This is perfect for you
3. Can I do this with my partner?
The videos/lessons show us (Sam
& Alapaki, the founders of the
Gay Couples Institute) demonstrating
the skills on our own real experiences. This provides the best template that
you can learn to replicate on your own.
4. Can we get more help?
Sure. Email us at admin@gaycouplesinstitute.org for a link to our application and consultation calendar. If you move forward with us we'll credit your investment in the Toolkit. We take good care of our best clients (you), and try to make as much of our Institute available as possible.
5. What is the cost?
Well, Let's be honest. Divorce cost
$30,000. The ending of the relationships
impact one's ability to work and
connect to others as the breakup
happens. The toolkit allows you to
sample some of the best conflict
materials at a **fraction** of the
financial cost of these other
outcome. Scroll down and take
a look at what we have made a
available today.
6. What if I'm not sure?
No problem. Try it out, and if it's not a
good fit send over a one-line email
asking for a refund. We want you to be
happy with your investment.